Things a bit rough or boring in your relationship, thinking of moving on? Do you really want to do this to your family?
It’s coming up to Christmas and looking back over the year I remember how my friend made a book each year of her photos and family adventures. I think briefly I wish I’d done that. Wouldn’t it be nice to look back on my children’s childhood. Then boom, I am glad I didn’t. I don’t look at old family photos, because every photo I see of our ‘happy’ family is overwritten now, I imagine his thoughts as he looks at the lens, they must have been..
‘How can I get out of this, when can I text my mistress about the weekend we just had, are going to have. I wish I hadn’t married this woman. I resent having children with her. Look how she’s let herself go, my mistress has an amazing body, and would look so much better in this photo than her. How can I get rid of her, I’m sure the kids hate her too, they’d love having a sexy new mum they felt proud of.’
One family unit smashed to pieces because he wanted to put his little **** in someone twenty years younger than him, who left him shortly after the marriage had been wrecked.
Dont do it to the people you love.